Intellect vs Intuition – The Power of And

Intellect and intuition are two distinct animals. Understanding things rationally may ask me to set aside emotion, while my gut feelings lean into it. Both can be constructive on their own. When paired, they’re magical.

My studies emphasize logic and critical thinking. But, my inclinations favor the hunch. When life presents a possibility and its decision time, I’ll weigh my options. However, I ultimately trust what feels right. Ignoring the bad belly, the niggling doubt, or the emotional vampire bit my ass more than once.

When you know you know.

Cultural programming tells me common-sense is de rigueur. But is it? In an article from Psychology Today, Jim Taylor, PhD says: Common Sense Is Neither Common nor Sense.

“If common sense was common, then most people wouldn’t make the kinds of decisions they do every day. People wouldn’t buy stuff they can’t afford. They wouldn’t smoke cigarettes or eat junk food. They wouldn’t gamble.”

Dr. Taylor goes on to say that while Americans may revere this maxim, it’s but “a fallacy that has been foisted on us by our culture of ideology (any ideology that wants to tell us what we should think and do) that prefers us to be stupid, ill-informed, and poor decision-makers.”

Logic and questioning assumptions is not common-sense. Insight isn’t make-believe.

Yes, reason wants facts. Seeing is believing, and critical thinking promotes the need to analyze and evaluate an idea. Imagination calls for creativity and vision where believing is seeing. There’s a case for both.

Watching for omens and signs from the Universe is a favorite pastime. Trusting the message when it appears takes patience. That critical evaluation gives me confidence to follow my heart. In due course the proof of the pudding is in the eating as they say. Take the leap, enjoy life.


“Trust instinct to the end, even though you can give no reason.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

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The Glass is More than Half Full

Bill Gates and Barak Obama included the book Factfulness, by Hans Rosling on their 2018 summer reading list.  I’ve been a Rosling fan since I stumbled onto his TED Talk: the best stats you’ve ever seen years ago.  Obviously this went on my reading list as well.

Took the test at the front of the book.  Promptly failed it – like everyone else, despite my fandom.  Interesting.  As I read I acknowledged that YES … things are significantly better now than in the 1800s – in SO many ways.  Huge changes in just 200 years.  And the improvements in MY lifetime (since the 60’s) – ASTOUNDING!  Extreme poverty in decline.  Fewer babies die in childbirth.  More people have access to electricity and clean water.  Most people live in middle-income countries.  Worldwide, people live longer and are more educated (even GIRLS).

Yet strangely this good news is tucked away from our awareness by basic human instincts.  Which may be why Rosling and his family wrote the book – to identify and outline our blinders and help us become aware.  They describe ten reasons “even people with access to the latest information get the world wrong.”  Too often we’re oblivious to our own misconceptions.

These instincts may be hard to conquer, but it’s worth trying.  The Rosling team recommends we teach our children (and ourselves) humility and curiosity.

“Being humble, here, means being aware of how difficult your instincts can make it to get the facts right.  It means being realistic about the extent of your knowledge.  It means being happy to say “I don’t know.”  It also means, when you do have an opinion, being prepared to change it when you discover new facts.  It is quite relaxing being humble, because it means you can stop feeling pressure to have a view about everything, and stop feeling you must be ready to defend your views all the time.”

On the heels of reading Sapiens and Homo Deus by Yuval Noah Harari – realizing how humans exploited the planet and wiped out countless species – and the constant shower of chaos spewed by our leaders and the media – my angst was eased to learn the fact; things are improving – bit by bit.  Drip, drip, drip.  I just need to open my eyes and my heart – and be willing to change my mind.

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“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking.  It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein

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Dystopia, Utopia – or Somewhere in Between?

“I believe in intuitions and inspirations…I sometimes FEEL that I am right.  I do not KNOW that I am.” ― Albert Einstein

People . . .  you who listen to the still voice inside – your intuition, your instinct; are you getting nudges that something’s afoot?

My practice for over 30 years includes paying attention to this quiet voice; watching for odd coincidences that propel me forward; serendipitous events.  I’m inclined to look for the good, ignore the bad . . applying Goethe’s recommendation:

“If you treat a man as he is, he will remain as he is, if you treat him as he ought to be and could be, he will become as he ought to be and could be.”

Yes; I prefer an optimistic world-view; seeing the future with hope, excitement and adventure.  My enthusiasm for living in the elbow of the curve, on the edge of change – believing the next age will be thrilling is expectant, not apprehensive.

It was an eye-opener having a pessimistic, dystopian, fear laden counter-view shoved in my face.  Ignoring the bad maybe wasn’t my best strategy.  Getting gob-smacked is a bitch.  Being asleep at the wheel, trusting that things will “work out” – landed me flat on my ass.

How do I maintain my confidence in people and the world while I appreciate that others don’t?  And in large numbers.  The glass is half empty, half full and refillable.  How do we find common ground when all sides are true?

Pessimists and self-avowed “realists” want me to get on board with them; want me to throw down my rose-colored glasses and swallow their wretched beliefs.  And that makes me sick to my stomach.

Wake up call received though – must address the canker.  When we remodeled our home, things had to get chaotic and dirty before there was a clean slate, let alone a sparkly new space.

Still . . . my gut tells me something’s stirring.  Something big.  I’m not alone in this sentiment.

With caution – and an eye for a better world, I’m listening and acting on what shows up.  Maybe the boogeyman needed a spotlight.  Maybe the crud needed to be put on display.  Maybe we all need to walk through our fear.

When we light a lamp, where does the darkness go?  Not away, but it’s tempered.  Time to embrace the paradox.

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“The only thing to do is to be where you are at this moment, sometimes looking about in the full light of consciousness, other times standing comfortably in the deep shadows of mystery and the unknown.” ― Thomas Moore, Care of the Soul

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