The Glass is More than Half Full

Bill Gates and Barak Obama included the book Factfulness, by Hans Rosling on their 2018 summer reading list.  I’ve been a Rosling fan since I stumbled onto his TED Talk: the best stats you’ve ever seen years ago.  Obviously this went on my reading list as well.

Took the test at the front of the book.  Promptly failed it – like everyone else, despite my fandom.  Interesting.  As I read I acknowledged that YES … things are significantly better now than in the 1800s – in SO many ways.  Huge changes in just 200 years.  And the improvements in MY lifetime (since the 60’s) – ASTOUNDING!  Extreme poverty in decline.  Fewer babies die in childbirth.  More people have access to electricity and clean water.  Most people live in middle-income countries.  Worldwide, people live longer and are more educated (even GIRLS).

Yet strangely this good news is tucked away from our awareness by basic human instincts.  Which may be why Rosling and his family wrote the book – to identify and outline our blinders and help us become aware.  They describe ten reasons “even people with access to the latest information get the world wrong.”  Too often we’re oblivious to our own misconceptions.

These instincts may be hard to conquer, but it’s worth trying.  The Rosling team recommends we teach our children (and ourselves) humility and curiosity.

“Being humble, here, means being aware of how difficult your instincts can make it to get the facts right.  It means being realistic about the extent of your knowledge.  It means being happy to say “I don’t know.”  It also means, when you do have an opinion, being prepared to change it when you discover new facts.  It is quite relaxing being humble, because it means you can stop feeling pressure to have a view about everything, and stop feeling you must be ready to defend your views all the time.”

On the heels of reading Sapiens and Homo Deus by Yuval Noah Harari – realizing how humans exploited the planet and wiped out countless species – and the constant shower of chaos spewed by our leaders and the media – my angst was eased to learn the fact; things are improving – bit by bit.  Drip, drip, drip.  I just need to open my eyes and my heart – and be willing to change my mind.

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“The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking.  It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein

Empty the Bowl

“The glassblower knows: while in the heat of beginning, any shape is possible.  Once hardened, the only way to change is to break.” – Mark Nepo

This is the message from my yoga teacher at the last two classes I attended.  She asked us to approach our practice with a “beginners mind” – the place of all possibility.  Imagine the mind as an empty bowl – ready to be filled again.  Every time my mind fills with thoughts that take me away from now; let them go.

Those thoughts – they keep me chained to my ego.  They harden me.  The need to be right – to believe that the miniscule sliver of knowledge I possess is better, more important; superior to anything anyone else may know or believe.  It’s easy to harden; to think I’m all that.  A rigid stance must break if real change is desired.

Imagine a better way.  Imagine staying teachable, pliable.  Consider that the image I hold about myself and the world is an illusion.  Can I be the glass in the heat of beginning?

Change happens; whether accepted or ignored.  Staying attuned; in harmony with change is the challenge.  Because I know what’s “supposed” to happen right?  EGO, EGO, EGO.

Empty the bowl . . .  When change arrives, maybe I won’t crack.

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“Try not to resist the changes that come your way.  Instead let life live through you.  And do not worry that your life is turning upside down.  How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?” – Rumi